I’ve spent the past two days feeling dreadfully sorry for myself, and I’m absolutely sick of it. I am so blessed- beyond words- by so many wonderful people in my life. I have people making me meals, knitting me hats, sending homemade cards and haiku (sweet Amy, I love them each and every one), lending me scarves and hats, offering their time, love, and energy, and most importantly, continually reminding me that I am cherished. I have to remind myself when I begin feeling pathetically whiny about the side effects of treatment that this is not only a drag, but also an amazing opportunity for me to soak up some seriously fabulous attention. A year from now, I don’t want to regret not being completely present for this experience or for taking these gifts for granted. I want to recognize even the smallest ways that I have been enriched by this experience-every little bit of it. So, in honor of the season, I offer my gratitude for even the things I’ve complained about…
the nausea– I will forever appreciate my healthy appetite, and to love food as fully as possible.
the heartburn– I will continue to be thankful for my breath.
hours in chemo– quality time with Irene and the beautiful people who visit (thanks, Katie, Jenn, and Lena!)
exhaustion– I’ve never understood before now the wonder of an afternoon nap- ahhhhhhhhh.
hair loss– inner beauty, baby. It’s not about the hair- it’s the attitude one can have without it!
loss of breasts– no more underwire. ’nuff said.
I doubt that I will quit whining or being pathetic as my treatment drags on, but I want to mark this, the halfway point of chemo, as a time that I remember. I want to remember the people who have been there for me and who pointed out my strength, courage and beauty, even when I felt empty and tired, and I want to remember this as a time that changed me into a remarkable and kick ass woman- deserving of the title “survivor”.